It’s weird, I like to think of myself as very free spirited in the sense where I think almost everything is relative.  Yet lately, i’ve been finding myself very emotionally affected when I start reading too much into something because I almost want an absolute answer.  For example all these usage of “maybes”, “try”, “sometime”, “possibly” is driving me insane.  I can’t decide whether it then means the person doesn’t care and doesn’t want to give an absolute answer in fear of committing to something he/she wants to get out of OR it is simply just saying sure, sometime in the future sound nice.  And just that.  Doesn’t have any hidden meaning behind it.  But why do i have this feeling of uneasiness when there’s no absolute in an answer.  I mean, i know i don’t follow suit and is definitely being hypocritical about this, but i can’t get over it.  I guess words mean a lot to me.  There’s some absoluteness in words.